Another thing, don't know if this might be related:
On the machine were I can open my user control, the control is rendered ridiculously wide by the design view. The width of its main table should be 520px, but it is rendered with something around >2500px. I haven't found out yet what is causing this (while I only tried cursorily some things as it is getting late over here), but the file renders fine on IE 7, Firefox and in VS 2005's design view.
Also if I create a new user control and randomly add some controls, the design view, while feeling a little bit slower than VS 2005, performs more or less as expected. Apparently it seems to have some dislike of complex table structures (I know HTML table orgies are somewhat obsolete, but old bad habits die slow, also we still have a lot of customers using antique browsers *sigh*).